Saturday, September 30th
The Good.. the Bad.. and the Ugly. We’ve had it all in the past 10 days! Every time I’ve tried to find the time to write an update something else has happened, but I have finally find the time and a quiet moment. Let’s hope it stays that way.
Kerrie’s had a lot happen in the last two weeks… A possible trip to the ICU (which she narrowly escaped… not sure how she was able to convince them that she wasn’t that sick)..chest x-rays, lot’s of pain in the appendix and kidneys ( all tests indicated there was nothing wrong), the threat of possible MRI’s and more pain meds than most people can imagine. Then, last Tuesday, her transplant doctor came in the room and said she wanted to send her home for a few days.. but couldn’t let her leave the hospital when she was still using continuous pain meds through her IV.
So… they did away with the continous pain meds and started giving them to her orally.
Although it was good to get her off the continous feed, this resulted in her going through some pretty rough withdrawals from the pain killers. She says she now knows what people go through when going through detox. She also developed another rash, though it didn’t seem to be as bad as the first one.
Now.. for some really good news.
Kerrie was released from the hospital, on Thursday night, and came home. Mom said the nurses were all having a party in her room to see her off…. when mom was out in the parking lot, loading up the car, she looked up at Kerrie’s room and it looked like a bunch of people dancing around to Reggae music.
After two months in her hospital room, she was finally able to walk out the door of the hospital and outdoors. Her first words.. “It’s cold!”
Friday, started out at as great day.. Kerrie was sleeping in her bed, mom was happy and we headed to NOMC ( the hospital where Kerrie and mom work), so that I could help with the Bake Sale & Craft Sale.
The Bake Sale & Craft sale was a huge success and I was totally blown away by the support the hospital staff has shown Kerrie. They are truly an amazing group of people.As soon as I can, I will put pictures in the gallery, so everyone can see the outstanding people Kerrie works with.
After the Bake Sale, I was headed home and Mom and Kerrie were going to head outside for a ride in the car and to get Kerrie out into some fresh air. Unfortunately, that’s when things started going wrong.
Although the hospital dermatolgists didn’t feel her rash was enough to keep her from going home, it began to get worse on Friday afternoon. This time, it was worse than the first time around and she was a getting really red. Mom called Dr. Jana, her transplant doctor, and we headed to the ER.
“Just a quick trip to the ER Kerrie.. nothing to worry about.” But we were worried that we we’re going to have to re-admit her.Yeah.. just a quick trip to the ER. We arrived at 3:30 and, by 5:00pm, when they had called everyone in the waiting room BUT her, I was getting a little irritated, impatient and “verbal” about it.I think I told mom that if they took one more sprained ankle ahead of her I was going to have a talk with the staff.
Mom and Kerrie both kept telling me I just didn’t understand how Triage worked.. but I can’t see how a sprained ankle would take precedence over her. When a guy walked in, who looked like he had almost nothing wrong with him, and they were ready to take him back right away I had decided enough was enough. Just as I was about to start complaining, they finally called Kerrie back into the ER. Then.. we sat.. and waited.. while they cleaned an isololation room for her. I wasn’t sure if they were trying to isolate HER, so she wasn’t around the other people who were sick.. of they were trying to isolate her so SHE wouldn’t give the other people what she had :). By 6:00pm we still hadn’t seen a doctor and she looked like a giant, red cauliflower from head to toe.
By 6:30pm, still no doctor, the rash was getting continously worse, Kerrie was a miserable, itchy, painful mess and I was ready to head up to the Bone Marrow Transplant floor to talk to her staff. They wouldn’t be able to take care of her themselves, but they liked her so much that if I told them she was downstairs, had been there for 3 hours and nothing had been done they would have probably started making phone calls. My next thought was to put a sign on the door to the room that we were in that said ” we’ve been here for more than 3 hours.. where’s the F-ing doctor?” They were saved this fate, because just then the doctor came in. They have no idea how lucky there are, but those of you who know me.. and know how I get when I’m irritated, know how lucky they are 🙂
He took a brief look at Kerrie and then went to get another doctor.. 30 minutes passed and he came back. The two doctors looked her over and then left the room..”we’ll be back in a minute with some medication”.. yeah, sure. 30 minutes passed.. Kerrie was miserable and could only say ” I want to leave.. I didn’t even get 24 hours.”
We still weren’t sure she wasn’t going to be re-admitted, but we were keeping our fingers crossed. They gave her some medication and we waited to see if it would work.. by 8:30pm they gave her a bunch of perscriptions and we were able to leave the hospital again.
Saturday has been pretty uneventful! The rash is still keeping her from being too comfortable, but no trips to the ER today. Hopefully she will feel well enough, tomorrow, that we’ll be able to get outside for a little while.
The next week we should be getting ready for the bone marrow transplant. I have to go back to the hospital, on Monday, for more tests… perhaps they want to re-do them, since it’s been two months since were were originally supposed to do this? Kerrie goes back to the hospital, on Thursday, for a MUGGA scan on her heart, chest x-rays, etc. The MUGGA scan will make sure her heart is strong enough to withstand the chemo she will need to go through for the transplant and the other tests are just to make sure she is still healthy enough to proceed.
Once she and I have both been “cleared” we should be setting a date for the transplant. We believe Kerrie will have 7 – 10 days at home, to rest, and she will then be re-admitted. Keep your fingers crossed that everything goes well with our tests and nothing else “pops up” that will delay us. This is the 3rd time we have been ready to do the transplant.. so hopefully, the “third times the charm.”
Kerrie can have visitors, but the same policies are in effect as were at the hospital. Not too many people at one time… no one that’s sick, no small children, and be prepared that she will tire very easily. She can go outside, but can’t be in public venues.. so no Bingo 🙁
Keep you eye on the Gallery for some great pics of the bake sale, Kerrie, etc. It may be a day or two before I get them on here. It just depends on how often she snaps her fingers and says she needs something. I’m waiting on her hand and foot, as a good sister should…
She’s snapping her fingers again and saying something about wanting a foot massage.. so I have to go 🙂
More again soon…
13 Comments
Gina
That is great news that she is out of the hospital! I will be praying for the both of you that everything goes well!
caroll larsen
Hi Kerrie, I’m an old friend of your mother’s, not sure you would remember me. We are so glad you are
home and free for a few days. We are praying that everything goes well for you. You know you look a lot like your mom did at your age, that’s a compliment. God bless you Carrie. Love, Harvey and
Caroll
Sandy & Joe Maynerich
HI Kerrie,
Joe & I have you on our thoughts all the time and were praying that everything goes well for you and Jenn.
I gave Jenn my home e-mail addy because once you are back in the hospital I will be sending a recent pic of Christy at my & Joe’s wedding and one of Joe & I all dressed up before we got married on Sept 22nd.
There are several people that I have told about you that we did go to school with and they are also taking up donations for you as well. I am to so please take care of yourself and we hope to see you soon and back to a happy life you had before you had this problem.
You take care and we will talk to you soon I promise you on that one.
Love you!!!
Sandy, Joe & Christina
Aunt Rosie
Dear Kerrie,
A l l e u ia Hope you realize I was singing! Wonderful news. This is the best medicine for you. I will try to call if I can get through.
Love,
Aunt Rosie
Marcie
Thank you so much for the update. I was letting my imagination get the best of me.
Praying for you all. Kerrie, sorry you had to spend your day out sitting in the ER.
I really miss you and really want to come see you. If it is ok let me know wether to come to your home??? You are in my thoughts every single day. I just read about Opioiods in the pharm class I am taking from OU, sweet until you don’t want them anymore.
Best wishes to you all, and thinking positive thoughts about the 3rd try for transplant.
Marcie Wright
Linda Tobie(Brown)
Hey there Kerrie,
It’s Linda, remember me from high school!! I just found out about what is going on and my heart goes out to you. You will get through this difficult time because YOU ARE A FIGHTER!!!! You are a strong person!! My prayers are with you and your family. Email me and keep me updated, is there anything that I can send to you?, anything you like to do, like books or anything. I understand how your sister was feeling about the waiting, I worked in a ER too.
Take care,
Linda
Sandra Walter
Jen, I love your updates. I can see all of you sitting in that waiting room. You can have a person laughing and crying in the same sentence. I hope that the rest of Kerrie’s time at home is better and that you can have some enjoyable moments together. Tell Kerrie and your Mom that we are thinking of all of you. Sandra
DEB KAYGA
Hey sunshine–glad you get a few days at home. Met your sis at the bake sale. She is great! You are in my thoughts often. I have a special sunflower gift for you that I’m going to give you after everything is all done and you start to feel more like your old self. Keep your chin up with that beautiful smile. see you soon!!
Calandra
Kerrie, whatz up hommie? I know, I know, you can kill me later. I have not written you or talked to you in hundred years. However, you have been in my prayers and I have been looking at your beautiful pictures. When all of this is said and done, we have to hang out. Maybe we can enter one of those Karaoke contests together. I am going to have to fire Laurie because she does not hang out in da hood. I know you will.
Did you ever have an inkling that God made you special? Did you know that one day he would make you famous? The strength that you have shown is remarkable. To have your life change course on the verge of your shining moments is disturbing. But, your courage, beliefs, and faith in God has proven to carry you through.
Wanted to let you know that I moved out of my condo but it is still fully furnished. If you ever have out of town guests that need a place to crash, you can use my condo. It is on the market as we speak. I don’t have any food there, but lots of alcohol. No cable but the dvd player works.
The bake sale was lots of fun. I felt that no matter what was going on in my crazy life, I had to do this for you. I spoke your name more that day than I have in my years of working with you. Contibuting to your recovery will allow my blessings to glow, cause you know I’m a sinner. I wasn’t taking no for an answer. I told them to go to their cars and dig between the seats if they had to, I did not care, but they were giving up some damn money. Most people knew you and that was great. They wanted to help.
I can still hear your voice, and I remember you just as I met you year ago. God bless you and keep you.
Calandra (248)310-4092
admin
Sandra, Deb & Calandra… you message have me sitting in my office, laughing and crying at the same time. My general manager is going to walk in, any minute, and wonder what the heck is wrong with me. I am so thankful that my sister has special people, like you, in her life!
Jenn